18K views · 298 reactions | Healthy masculinity can feel unfamiliar to someone shaped by trauma. When you grow, communicate, and show up with emotional clarity, it can trigger someone whose experiences taught them that love comes with chaos or withdrawal. Your job isn’t to shrink back; it’s staying aligned with where you’re going. . . . . . #healthyrelationships #nervoussystemregulation #traumarecovery #secureattachment #personaldevelopment | Andrew Shaw | Facebook