1. Her scent stayed when she left She didn’t overspray. She simply existed. Her perfume lingered on his pillow,his towel,the throw blanket. Every time he lay down his brain associated rest with her. Soon he couldn’t fall asleep without that scent. 2. She softened the lighting She didn’t redecorate she just lit candles instead of the harsh ceiling light. Turned on a warm lamp. She created intimacy without words. His home stopped being a “space” and started feeling like a sanctuary only when she w