They were caught canoodling at a Coldplay concert — and now they’re out of jobs. Days after tech tech startup Astronomer announced the resignation of its married chief executive, Andy Byron, who was seen in a viral video with the head of human resources,

In her essay about the recent exposure of an affair on a Coldplay concert’s kiss cam, Ms. Schulman exhibits a common and troubling misunderstanding of the distinction between shame and humiliation.

The video, which showed the pair swaying to music at the concert before trying to hide, gained millions of views on social media.